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This is the single most misinterpreted fact about men that women cannot seem to wrap their heads around, because sex for women is totally opposite. Most women would never even dream of sleeping with a majority of the different men in their lives and are way more discerning when it comes down to who they will actually sleep with. This category is exponentially smaller than the first category.
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Where a man might be open to having sex with women, he may be open to actually dating three. These are the women who he actually enjoys spending time with, who he finds both physically attractive and mentally stimulating.
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The rules and expectations are different. Understanding this is the difference between confusion and anger. Understanding it is the difference between happiness and contentment. Force yourself to confront human nature so you can predict it. You must face uncomfortable truths about the world to face uncomfortable truths about yourself. She is more likely to have a positive opinion of men and respect them. However, if she holds him in high regard this means he was a positive masculine influence.
He likely influenced her opinion of men in a positive way as well. Most guys understand that a crackhead should not be their first choice. But the reality is that any drug use should be a deal breaker. The bottom line is that the use of any mind altering substance beyond the occasional drink is going to be a problem. For lighter vices like smoking, you should still avoid it.
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Smokers have a lower level of self-discipline and self-restraint — two things you want someone to have that you commit a significant amount of time and resources to. I think I understand why. More specifically, more self-control is required to maintain a pleasing appearance through diet than exercise. There is a saying that describes the difference between male and female friendships:. Blatant hypocrisy is the real issue. Here friendships with men should be assessed on a bell curve: too many male friends is just as alarming as none at all.
What can you, one man, hope to offer in place of many varied men?
That would suggest a special type of isolation that is just as difficult to manage as over-exposure. Each time you put water in or take water out the bucket, you do a small amount of damage to it. Some guys just want a pretty face around until it becomes too boring or stressful.
Unfortunately, this is most girls. Great conversations are the result of a rich life. Ideally, her hobbies and interests enhance your life as well. However, excessive amounts of tattoos or tattoos in a place where it would be strange if a family member touches them is a red flag. The same goes for piercings beyond basic earrings or a tasteful nose ring , weird hair colors, or strange haircuts. I have a lot to be happy about. I am very lucky in many other ways.
I thank God for that. I recently got a boxer dog and she is a great companion. She loves me unconditionally, wants to hang out with me, waits by the door for me to come home when I am out of the house, and cannot access my bank account. I retire from the military in 4 years, have saved since the age of 16 and have started construction on my dream home. Once retired age 40 , I will spend the rest of my life indulging in my hobbies. It would be nice to have a women to share it all with, but I move forward happy…regardless.
Move forward. Find your happiness. Focus on the positives. Very well articulated Bill. You state the truth with no apprehensions. Might I add…I am Have a decent job 19 year firefighter with a major southern city , and yes…I am single. I am always polite, and consider myself a southern gentleman. I can easily get laid…. However, my expectations are not that I expect a 24 yr old pretty girl to be commited to me. But I find that being quite courteous and generous with my money , that I can easily find an attractive bed partner.
I can never keep them for long however…lol. What I have found…is this. This also happens with females of my own age. Again…I will say it…Woman say they want a nice guy…. Niceness gets me laid…. If it makes you feel any better, some of us pretty, ambitious, 24yo prefer nice gentlemen who are in their 40s so long as we have things in common, like passion.
I find myself wanting to discuss world events with him or just hear his perspectives on different issues. It could also be that you sound very shallow and contradict yourself with what you want. If you want pretty blonde white women with a university degree, they are not going to want to stay home and make sure the children are well educated at home as you indicated. This is actually not Dude, it seems that you have enough money to buy yourself a wife. You said yourself you are attracted to beautiful or at least pretty women and not mentioned anything about personality so why not travel to Thailand and make someone very rich and buy yourself companion.